A History of Sex as a Business 03 | The Middle Ages: God, Sin, and Regulation
The medieval Church condemned commercial sex as mortal sin — and then many of the same institutions that preached that message either tolerated or directly profited from licensed brothels. This episode explores the extraordinary contradiction at the heart of medieval sexuality and the economic logic that drove it.
A History of Sex as a Business 02 | Greece, Rome, and the Architecture of Desire
From the intellectual companionship of Athenian hetaerae to the licensed brothels of imperial Rome, this episode examines how two of history’s most influential civilizations built elaborate social and legal structures around the commodification of sex — and who paid the price.
My Life Is Full, Just Not by Your Standards: In Defense of the Quiet, Curious Life
Some people look at a life spent learning, writing, and thinking and see something to pity. Here’s a warm, honest defense of the quiet, curious life — and a look at why the pity says more about the person giving it than the one receiving it.
Contemporary: The Gift and the Responsibility of Right Now
Contemporary means sharing the same time. But it carries something more interesting than a date stamp. In this episode, we explore what it means to be a person of your moment — and what you owe to the time you’re living in.
A Weight off Your Shoulders: The Specific Joy of Putting Something Down
We carry things we don’t always name. Worry, responsibility, guilt, unresolved situations — they accumulate on the shoulders the way nothing visible accumulates anywhere. The moment that weight lifts is one of the most visceral experiences in human life. This episode explores the beautiful, embodied truth of one of English’s most honest expressions.
Emulate: The Highest Form of Admiration
Imitation might be the sincerest form of flattery, but emulation is something deeper — it’s not just copying, it’s aspiring. In this episode, we explore the difference and ask: who are you emulating, and what does that say about who you want to become?
A Wake-Up Call: The Unwelcome Gift of Being Jolted Awake
No one asks for a wake-up call. They come uninvited — a crisis, a diagnosis, a loss, a failure — and they deliver a message you weren’t ready to receive. But ‘a wake-up call’ is, in the end, an act of grace. This episode explores one of the most significant expressions in English, and why being woken up — however harshly — is almost always better than staying asleep.
Audacity: The Beautiful Nerve to Try
Audacity is the word for the move that shouldn’t work but might — for the pitch that’s too big, the ask that’s too much, the step that everyone around you says is a step too far. In this episode, we celebrate the beautiful nerve of the audacious.
A Vicious Cycle: The Loop That Feeds Itself and How to Step Out
You’ve probably been in one. The problem creates the condition that reinforces the problem. Round and round, each turn tightening the spiral. ‘A vicious cycle’ is one of the most precise expressions in English for a particular kind of trap — and this episode explores both what makes cycles vicious and what it takes to break them.
Dead Silence: Why Dismissal Hurts Writers More Than Criticism
Criticism at least means someone read you. Dismissal means they pretended you never wrote a word. A witty, tender look at the silence that wounds worse than any bad review — and how to grow a skin for it.
