Show Me the Money (Politely): The English You Need to Ask for a Raise or Promotion

by Danny Ballan | May 25, 2026 | Progressive English Speaking

Have you ever felt that knot in your stomach when you know — you absolutely know — you deserve a raise, but the thought of actually asking for one makes you want to hide under your desk? Now imagine doing that in English. Suddenly the knot doubles in size. But here’s the thing: asking for a raise is one of the most learnable conversations in professional English. It follows patterns. It has a vocabulary. And once you know the playbook, it stops being terrifying and starts being strategic.

Money is one of those topics that makes people uncomfortable in almost every culture, but in the workplace, it’s essential. Whether you’re asking for your first raise, pitching yourself for a promotion, or negotiating a salary offer, the English you need is specific, practical, and — I promise — very learnable. Let’s build it up, step by step.

LEVEL 1 — THE BASICS (A1/A2)

Let’s start with the key vocabulary. Your salary is the money you receive for your work, usually expressed as an annual amount — ‘My salary is $50,000 a year.’ A raise (in American English) or a pay rise (in British English) is an increase in your salary. A promotion is when you move up to a higher position at work, usually with more responsibilities and more pay. A bonus is extra money you receive, often based on performance. And benefits are the non-salary perks that come with your job — health insurance, vacation days, retirement plans.

At the basic level, here are the simple phrases you need:

"I would like a raise, please."

"I want to talk about my salary."

"Can I get a promotion?"

"I work very hard."

"I think I deserve more money."

The phrase ‘I would like’ is your best friend here because it’s polite and professional. Compare ‘I want a raise’ with ‘I would like to discuss a raise.’ Both communicate the same thing, but the second one won’t make your boss spill their coffee. ‘I would like to’ followed by a verb is the go-to structure for polite professional requests at any level.

Some useful adjectives: fair means reasonable and just. Competitive means matching or exceeding what others earn for similar work. Current means right now. Previous means before. And deserved means earned through effort. ‘I think a raise is fair because I work very hard.’ Simple, honest, effective.

Grammar focus: the present simple is useful for describing your current situation. ‘I work overtime every week.’ ‘I manage three projects.’ ‘I help new employees.’ These facts are your evidence, and at this level, stating them clearly is all you need.

LEVEL 2 — ADDING COLOR AND DEPTH (B1/B2)

Now let’s move from basic requests to actual persuasion. At the intermediate level, you’re not just asking for a raise — you’re building a case for why you deserve one. This is where preparation meets language, and it’s where most successful salary conversations happen.

Expanded vocabulary: compensation is the formal term for everything you receive for your work — salary, benefits, bonuses, the whole package. A performance review is a meeting where your work is formally evaluated. A benchmark is a standard used for comparison — ‘The industry benchmark for this role is $65,000.’ To exceed expectations means to do better than what was required. And market rate is what professionals in similar positions typically earn.

Here’s where your conversations start sounding professional:

"I’d like to schedule a meeting to discuss my compensation."

"Over the past year, I’ve taken on significantly more responsibility."

"I consistently exceed my targets and have received positive feedback from clients."

"Based on my research, the market rate for this role is higher than my current salary."

"I’m hoping we can find a figure that reflects my contribution to the team."

Grammar spotlight: the present perfect is crucial here because it connects your past achievements to your current situation. ‘I’ve increased sales by 20%.’ ‘I’ve been leading the team for six months.’ ‘I’ve taken on three additional projects since my last review.’ This tense says: look at what I’ve done, and it’s still relevant now. That’s exactly the message you want to send.

The conditional is also powerful: ‘If the company could adjust my salary to reflect my current role, I’d really appreciate it.’ ‘If there’s room in the budget, I’d love to discuss a raise.’ These are tactful, diplomatic, and impossible to be offended by.

Phrasal verbs that matter here: to bring up means to raise a topic in conversation — ‘I want to bring up my salary.’ To take on means to accept new responsibilities. To step up means to do more than expected. To turn down means to reject an offer. And to come to an agreement means to reach a deal that both sides accept.

Speaking tip: when you walk into a raise conversation, lead with gratitude before making your request. ‘I really enjoy working here, and I’m grateful for the opportunities I’ve had. That said, I’d like to discuss whether my compensation could be adjusted to better reflect my current contributions.’ This ‘gratitude + pivot’ structure is a classic negotiation technique, and it works beautifully in English.

LEVEL 3 — FLUENCY AND NUANCE (C1/C2)

At the advanced level, asking for a raise becomes a strategic negotiation. You’re not just presenting achievements — you’re framing a narrative, anticipating objections, and positioning yourself within the broader context of your organization’s goals.

Advanced vocabulary: a compensation adjustment is the formal term for a salary change. Leverage refers to the advantage you have in a negotiation — ‘My unique skill set gives me leverage.’ A counteroffer is the employer’s response to your request, often a different figure or package. Retention is the company’s effort to keep valuable employees. And total compensation encompasses salary, equity, bonuses, benefits, and any other forms of remuneration.

"I’d like to discuss a compensation adjustment that reflects both the expanded scope of my role and my demonstrated impact on the department’s performance metrics."

"I’ve benchmarked my position against industry standards, and the data suggests there’s a significant gap between my current compensation and the market median for professionals with comparable experience and responsibilities."

"I want to be transparent: I’m deeply committed to this organization, and my preference is absolutely to grow here. However, I’d be remiss not to mention that I’ve received external interest that has prompted me to reassess my current situation."

That last sentence is the nuclear option — mentioning outside offers. Notice how it’s wrapped in loyalty language (‘deeply committed,’ ‘my preference is absolutely to grow here’) before the strategic reveal. This is sophisticated English at its most powerful.

Grammar at this level: the subjunctive and conditional perfect add nuance. ‘Had the promotion been available six months ago, I would have applied immediately.’ ‘Were the budget to allow for it, I’d welcome the opportunity to discuss equity participation.’ The inverted conditional (‘Were the budget to allow’) is formal and impressive — the kind of structure that signals you belong in the room.

Writing tip: if your company requires a written request, the email should be concise and structured. Open with a clear statement of purpose (‘I’m writing to formally request a review of my compensation’). Follow with your strongest evidence in two to three sentences. Then propose a specific figure or range, and close with flexibility (‘I’m open to discussing the best way to structure this’). The whole email should be under 200 words. Brevity signals confidence.

Cultural insight: in American business culture, negotiating salary is expected and even respected — not asking can actually signal a lack of confidence. In British professional culture, the approach tends to be more understated, with phrases like ‘I was wondering whether’ and ‘it might be worth exploring.’ In Australian workplaces, directness is valued but so is humility — ‘I reckon I’ve earned a chat about my pay’ is not out of place. Knowing which register suits your environment is an advanced but essential skill.

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